It is most often associated with infants, but adults can experience it too.
With the right strategies, separation anxiety can be handled with care and patience.
What Is Separation Anxiety?
It often appears in childhood but can also occur in adults due to life transitions.
Typical signs include:
- Crying or panic during separation
- Clinging behavior
- Physical symptoms like headaches or nausea
What Triggers Separation Anxiety
The causes can be biological.
Common causes include:
- Starting school or daycare
- Past trauma or loss
- Lack of independence training
- Anxiety in the family
How to Recognize It Early
Recognizing it early is especially important in new situations.
Look out for these red flags:
- Fearful reactions to separation
- Avoiding school or social activities
- Insomnia or restlessness
Helping Kids Cope with Separation
Supporting children through separation anxiety requires patience, routine, and reassurance.
Strategies to help include:
- Say goodbye consistently
- Use positive reinforcement
- Encourage self-soothing skills
- Avoid sneaking out
How Adults Can Cope with Separation Anxiety
Adults can also face separation anxiety, especially in stressful life changes or trauma.
Ways to deal with it:
- Exploring CBT or talk therapy
- read more Mindfulness and meditation
- Staying socially connected
- Identifying negative thought patterns
Knowing When It's Serious
If separation anxiety is causing intense distress, it may be time to seek help.
When intervention is needed:
- Daily disruption due to anxiety
- Frequent illness from stress
- Refusing to engage in normal life
Support and Hope
Separation anxiety can be intense but temporary.
Whether it’s a child learning to go to school or an adult adjusting to change, the journey takes time and compassion.